Umqeqeshi wokuphila
Okuncane mayelana nensizakalo kanye nomqeqeshi nontanga yakho ……
UCaryl ubelokhu eluleka futhi eqeqesha amashumi amabili eminyaka futhi ungowasinda e-lymphoma futhi uyivolontiya ne-Lymphoma Australia. U-Caryl uyakuqonda okwenzayo futhi uzokusiza ukuthi uthole isiqondiso sakho phakathi kwezinxushunxushu. UCaryl uzokunikeza isiqondiso esinakekelayo ukuze akusekele.
Ukuqeqesha noCaryl kungakusiza ukuthi:
Bhekana nezinselele
Yenza usuku ngalunye lukhanye kancane
Zikhuthaze ukuthi uthole umuzwa wokujwayelekile
Yehlisa imizwa yakho
Thuthukisa ubudlelwano bakho
Gcina indlela yokuphila engcono
Ukufeza izinhloso namaphupho akho
Qonda izinto eziza kuqala kuwe
Thola umuzwa wokuthula omkhulu
Inguquko ibuyele emsebenzini
Ubani ongaqeqeshelwa impilo?
Le nsizakalo yokuqeqesha ayithathi indawo yokusekelwa ngokwengqondo. Ukuqeqesha akuboniswanga kunoma ubani osenkingeni yezezimali, ohlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi noma abasengozini nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Uma unemibuzo mayelana nale sevisi, sicela uxhumane nurse@lymphoma.org.au noma i-1800953081.
Ubufakazi beziguli
Isiguli esingu-K esivela ku-QLD
“Ukubamba iqhaza ekuqeqesheni i-lymphoma noCaryl kube yinqubo ekhulisayo nebalulekile. Manje ngiyakwazi ukuthola ibhalansi yami ngokufinyelela amakhono engiwatholile ukuze ngihlale emhlabeni wami ofanele futhi ngiqhubeke nokuphila.
Nakuba ekuqaleni ngangingenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ukuqeqeshwa kuzongisiza kanjani, kwasheshe kwabonakala ukuthi kunendawo ngempela ohambweni lwami… okungivumela ukuthi ngibone amandla ami kanye nekhono lami lokusekelwa kunokusebenzela ngokuzimela ekungitholeni futhi.”
Isiguli L esivela kwa-NSW
“Ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo, ngangikuthola kunzima kakhulu ukwamukela lokhu kuxilongwa nokuthi akukho ukwelashwa okwakudingeka okwamanje futhi ngatshelwa ukuthi 'ngiphile impilo yami engcono kakhulu'. Ngafinyelela kumhlengikazi we-lymphoma owangidlulisela kwezinye izikhathi zokuqeqesha. Indlela uCaryl aqeqesha ngayo ingenze ngabona ukuthi ngingumuntu onamandla noqinile oseye wabhekana nezinselele eziningi eminyakeni edlule futhi ngizokwazi ukubhekana nale nselelo entsha enginikezwe yona. Nginomuzwa wokuthi lezi zikhathi noCaryl zinginikeze amasu okubhekana nemicabango yami yokungaqiniseki kokungazi ukuthi ngizodinga nini ukwelashwa noma ukuthi ngizoyiphila kanjani impilo yami ngokugxila ekubeni nokubonga nokuba nethemba ngazo zonke izinto ezinhle enginazo. sizungezwe.”
Buka amavidiyo ukuze uhlangane no-Caryl, umqeqeshi wezempilo, futhi uthole amathiphu amahle ngokubeka imigomo.
Sibungaza Ukungaqiniseki
Ibhalwe nguCaryl Hertz
Bangaki bethu abasilela ekufinyeleleni izinjongo zethu noma mhlawumbe singazami ngisho nokuzama futhi sihlale sifihlekile futhi siphephile endaweni yethu yokunethezeka.
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