Lo ngumfanekiso woMyeni wam uBen kunye nam, othathwe nge-28th kaSeptemba 2022 malunga ne-7: 30pm. Besiphumile sibhiyozela usuku lwam lokuzalwa lwe 30th. Kwakhona sasibhiyozela inyanga yethu yomtshato. Kwiiyure ezintathu ngaphambi kokuba le foto ithathwe, siye safumanisa ukuba ndinenqwaba enkulu ekhulayo esifubeni sam, ehlasela ithambo lam le-sternum.
Xa sibuyela kwinyanga ngaphambili, mna noBen satshata eMelbourne. Ndandingaphilanga ngemini yethu yomtshato; Ndandingenazo iimpawu onokucinga ukuba umntu onomhlaza anokuba nazo okanye afanele abe nazo. Ndandingoyena mzimba usempilweni.
Emva kweveki sihambile siye kwiholide yethu yomtshato omncinane, safika ekhaya, ndaza ndakhwela inqwelo-moya ndaya ngqo eSydney ukuze ndiqalise umsebenzi wam omtsha. Bendisandula ukufumana umsebenzi wam wamaphupha njengentloko yotshintsho lweHR kukhathalelo olukhulu, olukhulileyo kunye nomboneleli wezempilo. Iiveki zam ezimbini zokuqala zibandakanya ukubhabha phakathi kweMelbourne kunye neSydney kwaye emva kweveki yam yokuqala ndandiziva ndidiniwe, endiyibeke phantsi ukuze ndivuke ngo-5am ndibambe iliso elibomvu ukuya eSydney, ndidibana nabantu abatsha, ndisebenza kwaye ndilala kwindawo eyahlukileyo. Andizange ndicinge ukuba kukho into embi eyenzekayo.
USarah noBen babhiyozela usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lwama-30 kunye nenyanga yabo yesikhumbuzo somtshato
Ekuqaleni kweveki yam yesibini ngaloo Mvulo, njengoko ndandikhwele inqwelo-moya ndisinge eSydney, ndeva kubuhlungu esifubeni sam. Yayingeyiyo iintlungu zokuphefumla, kodwa ndandisoloko ndigqobhoza iintlungu ezibukhali kwisibeleko sam. Ndicinge ukuba nditsale umsipha ePilates, kodwa iintlungu ziye zanda iveki kwaye xa ndibuyela eMelbourne ndabhukisha ukuze ndibone ugqirha wam ngoLwesithathu olandelayo.
Ugqirha wam u-Elaine wayengaqinisekanga ukuba yayisisihlunu esitsaliweyo kwaye wandithumela ukuba ndiye kukhangela igazi elingxamisekileyo ukuze abone ukuba ndandinehlwili legazi kulo lonke uhlobo lokubhabha. Ngentsimbi yesi-6 ngobo busuku u-Elaine wandifowunela wathi, “une-D dimer ephakamileyo, ndiyarhana ukuba lihlwili legazi eli, udinga iCT scan kuqala kusasa ekuseni”. Bendingavuyiswanga yilento kodwa noko besisiya sisondela kule nto ibibangela isifuba.
Ndivuke ngentseni yomhla we-28 kaSeptemba, bekungoLwesine ilusuku lwam lwe-30 yokuzalwa. Ngeli nqanaba ndandisele ndisebeza kuba ukungcangcazela kwelizwi lam kwakuza kundibangela iintlungu ezingathethekiyo. Ndahlebezela uBen “happy one month anniversary” ndaza ndamcela ukuba andiqhubele kwiCT scan yam.
Xa ndithetha inyani ndandikwi zone emsebenzini ngalamini zange ndicinge nokucinga ngescan imini yonke. Bendigxile kwiveki yam yokuqala kwiofisi yaseMelbourne, ndidibana nabantu abatsha kwaye ndixakekile ndisakha uphawu lwam “njengentombazana engaqhelekanga ehlebayo”. Kodwa ngentsimbi yesine yakhala ifowuni yam, ndaqaphela inombolo kaElaine ndaza ndaphendula, “Molo Elaine, ndibulawa yintoni?” Uye wathi, “Jonga, siza kuyenza le nto, kodwa i-CT scan yakho ibonise inqwaba enkulu esifubeni sakho. Enye ilingana nebhatata encinci kwaye enye isiqhamo sekiwi. Zombini izihlwele zicinezela kanye ngokuchasene nethambo lakho le-sternum. Kunokwenzeka ukuba i-lymphoma, kodwa kufuneka senze i-biopsy ukuqinisekisa, ngaba ndinayo imvume yakho yokufowunela i-oncologist?" Yayiyifowuni etshintsha ubomi, into ongalindelanga ukuyifumana, ngakumbi hayi kwi-4 yakhoth usuku lokuzalwa!
UBen kunye noSarah ngelixa wayene-CT Scan yakhe yokuqala
Siye saphuma no Ben sayotya i Birthday dinner, parma and margs kwabetha u 7pm kwathi kutyiwa yakhala iphone yam, ibiyi number endingayaziyo. Ndiphendule kwaye ibingugqirha wam omtsha we-oncologist uKirstin, wathi “Happy Birthday Sarah, ndikubhalisele ngomso, sobonana ke, sikufumene”. Loo fowuni yayiyeyona nto yandomelezayo ngaloo mini. Ndaye ndacinga, ndiyazibuza ukuba bangaphi abanye abantu abafumene i-oncologist kusuku lwabo lokuzalwa lwama-30, iyinto ekhethekileyo kakhulu!
Ngemini elandelayo mna noBen sadibana noKirstin, ugqirha wam we-oncologist okwiCandelo legazi kwiSibhedlele saseCabrini eMalvern. Ucacisile ukuba oku kwakusenziwa njengeHodgkin's Lymphoma kwaye iskena se-PET sasibalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba ziphi na ezinye iithumba kunye nokuvavanya ukuba leliphi inqanaba endikulo. UKirsten wathetha ngendlela enokubonakala ngayo unyango ngaphandle kolwazi ngoxilongo olusemthethweni. Sishiye eso siqendu kunye nemibhalo yolawulo lweentlungu, i-PET scan scan, kunye ne-biopsies ezimbini ezifakwe kuyo. Sishiye siziva sikhululekile ngakumbi ngale meko.
Ke ukuba kwiveki elandelayo ndiye ndafumana iskena se-PET kwaye emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa ndafumana i-biopsies. Kwakunzima kakhulu kuba njengoko ndandifuna ukungacingi ngale 24/7, iintlungu esifubeni sam, nangona zilawuleka, yayiyisikhumbuzo esiqhubekayo sokuba kukho into eyenzekayo kwaye ayilungile.
I-PET Scan yokuqala kaSarah ebonisa amathumba asesifubeni sakhe
NgoLwesine umhla we-13 ka-Okthobha, iiveki ezimbini kanye ukusukela kwi-CT scan yam, yayilusuku esafumana ngalo ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni. Mna no Ben saya e Cabrini sadibana no Dr Kirstin. Wathi, “Ayizondaba zimbi, ayisiyiyo le besiyilindele.” Ukuxilongwa kwam yayiyiPrimary Mediastinal Diffuse Large B Cell lymphoma. Uhlobo olunqabileyo nolundlongondlongo lwe-non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, ndandikwinqanaba le-2E. Oku kwasitshintsha kakhulu isicwangciso sethu sonyango. UKirsten usihambile kwirejimeni yam, DA R EPOCH kunye nombono wokuba ndifumane i-chemo yosuku yatshintshwa ngokukhawuleza ngonyango lwe-inpatient immunotherapy kunye nechemotherapy ukusuka ngoMvulo ukuya ngoMgqibelo kumjikelo weentsuku ezingama-21. UKirsten uthe, “Ndikubhukishele kumgca wakho wePICC, siza kuqala ichemo ngoMvulo, uSuzanne, omnye wabongikazi ukulindile ngoku kwaye uzakuphendula yonke imibuzo onayo kwaye athethe nawe ngeendlela zokuzala” .
Ke, mna noBen sahlala phantsi noSuzanne, wathi, “Le ininzi, masikhe siphefumle kwaye ndiza kukuhambisa koko ndikulungisileyo, sikufumene”. Wachaza lo mgca we-PICC wasentsomini, kwaye wathi ndingalindela ukuphulukana neenwele zam ngokukhawuleza. Ndathi kuye, “Ndicinga ukuba uKirsten unokuba undibhidanise nesinye isigulana kuba kukho into ayithethileyo malunga nokuzala? Izicubu zam zisesifubeni sam kungekhona ama-ovari am, yintoni i-lymphoma enokuyenza ngayo ngokuzala kwam?
Ndithi ndijonge emva kulo mbuzo ndihleke kuba ngoku sele kucace gca kum, kodwa kuya kubonisa ukuba xa usanda kuhlaselwa ngumhlaza, yonke into ingaphandle ngokupheleleyo. Ndandikwigophe lokufunda. Sasingenalo ixesha lokukhenkceza kwamaqanda kwaye emva kokudibana nengcali yokuchuma ngosuku olulandelayo saqalisa inaliti yenyanga ngethemba lokulondoloza ukuchuma kwam.
Ekupheleni kweveki, sasinazo iinyani, sasinalo isicwangciso. Sasineeyure ezingama-48 zokuxelela abahlobo kunye nosapho lwethu phambi kokuba ndiqalise unyango. Ngobusuku bangeCawa sasidiniwe. Ndakhupha isuitcase yam yomsebenzi ndaza endaweni yokupakisha ukuya eSydney, ndaqalisa ukupakisha impahla yam yokuya esibhedlele. Sasiziva sikulungele njengokuba nabani na enokuba ngaphambi kweveki yakhe yokuqala yonyango.
Usuku lokuqala lonyango lwafika, umgca wam wePICC wafakwa kwaye umjikelo wam wokuqala waqala ngoMvulo emva kwemini ukuya ngoMgqibelo ekuseni. Akuzange kuthathe xesha lide ukuba abongikazi kunye neqela lezonyango elibanzi bafumanise ukuba “ndiloluhlobo lwesigulana” kwaye baqala ukundigcina ndinolwazi ngezinto eziye zandinceda ukuba ndizive ndikhululekile kwaye ndinolawulo. Yayizizinto ezilula ezifana nokwabelana ngeziphumo xa ndithatha uxinzelelo lwegazi okanye ubushushu bam. Ukuthatha isibini esongezelelweyo ukutsho i-36.8 yayiyimpumelelo kum kwaye yandenza ndaziva ndiwazi ngakumbi umzimba wam. Njengesigulana somhlaza ulahlekelwa lukholo oluninzi emzimbeni wakho kwaye ukwazi iziphumo zakho, idatha yakho, inceda ukubuyisela olo lawulo lulahlekileyo.
USarah waqhubeka esebenza ngonyango lwakhe ngoncedo lwabongikazi.
Ndagqiba ekubeni ndiqhubeke nokusebenza ngalo lonke unyango lwam. Ngentsasa yokuqala ndivuke esibhedlele ndiziva ndilungile. Ke, ndamisa itafile yam yokutya njengedesika yam, ndavula ilaptop yam ndaza ndaqalisa ukusebenza. Iqela labongikazi beza bephithizela belungiselela ukuthatha igazi, ukujonga, ukuthatha ubunzima bam, njl. UEmily, omnye wabongikazi, wandijonga phezulu naphantsi waza wahleka “ungenela intlanganiso kule nto?” Ndilibele ngokupheleleyo ukuba bendikwi-snoopy donut nighty yam kwaye andikwazanga ukutshintshwa ndim ngenxa yonxibelelwano lwam lwePICC.
U-Emily wakhawuleza wanditshintsha, wathatha igazi waza wathi uzobuya emva kwentlanganiso yam yonke. Ukubuya kwakhe wahlala phantsi wathi “ulapha ukuze ufumane unyango, kuhle ukuba ufuna ukusebenza kodwa oko kufuneka kulandele isizathu sokuba ulapha. Ezi zizinto ekungaxoxwa ngazo kwaye siza kuwenza njani lo msebenzi”. Igazi lasekuseni, nakuphi na ukukhala kumatshini we-chemo, iibhegi zokutshintsha ii-overs, kunye nokuqwalaselwa yayizizinto ezingaxoxiswana. Kwaye emva koko wayesenzela ucango lwam umqondiso xa ndikuzo naziphi na iintlanganiso.
Iintsuku zahamba kancinci, kodwa iiveki zahamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphambi kokuba sazi, sasikumjikelezo wesithathu. Ndaziva ngathi ndikwindawo elungileyo ngokwasengqondweni nasemzimbeni. Isifuba sam saphantse saphela, yaye ndandingasawasebenzisi nawaphi na amayeza eentlungu.
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, sasixelele kuphela inani elincinane labantu ababeze emtshatweni wethu. Kwakungekuko ukuba sasizama ukuyifihla; khange sihambe sixelele wonke umntu. Ke, wenza ntoni kule mini kunye neminyaka ukuba unohlaziyo lobomi? Uyithumela ku-Instagram! Ndiye ndayenza, ndathi “Ngomhla wam wokuzalwa wama-30 ndine-lymphoma”. Ndaye ndabhengeza ukuba ndenze iakhawunti eyahlukileyo ebizwa ngokuba yiLymphomo apho ndizakwenza ukulahla ingqondo yezinto endizivayo kwabo bafuna ukulandela. Kwaba ngathi ndothulwe umthwalo emagxeni am. Ubunzima endingamazi nokuba bukhona. Kwavakala kumnandi. Ndaqala ukunxibelelana nezinye iilymphomies kwaye yindlela endadibana ngayo nomhlobo wam olungileyo ngoku uChantelle. Wayenesigulo esifana nesam, enikwe unyango olufanayo kwaye wayenenyanga enye ngaphambili. Sasithetha yonke imihla kwaye sibe yintsika yokuxhasana.
Kodwa ke i-algorithm ye-Instagram yenza into yayo kwaye ndaqala ukubona iiakhawunti ezibuhlungu kakhulu kunye namava omhlaza amabi. Abantu abanomhlaza ofanayo nowam apho unyango aluzange lusebenze, abahlolokazi, kwakuninzi. Ndandinabantu abaninzi abafikelelayo ukuba babelane ngamabali abo kwaye kangangoko ndandifuna ukunceda ndandisazi ukuba andinakukwazi kwaye ndaqala ukuziva ndonganyelwe kwaye ndityiwa yiyo.
Ukubhengeza ukuxilongwa kwakhe kwi-Instagram
Ukuya kumjikelo wesine ndandikweyona ndawo imbi ndakha ndahlala kuyo. Iadrenaline yayisele igugile, ndandifuna nje ukuba iphele. Bendinesiqingatha sam se-PET scan kwaye andikwazanga “ukubona” ezo akhawunti ze-Instagram apho unyango lungazange lusebenze. Bendijikeleza. Omnye womongikazi wam uMaddy waqaphela ukuba andingomntu wam wesiqhelo, waphinda wavula i blinds egumbini lam, sabukela ukutshona kwelanga kunye. Uye wagqiba ehlala I 20 mins after ishifti yakhe igqibile ukuncokola nje andithulele. Ndamxelela ngamabali kwi-Instagram kunye ne-PET scan yam ezayo kwaye wathetha into kum eyitshintshe ngokwenene indlela endijonga ngayo ubomi. Wathi, “Ukhe uve kuphela ngeenqwelo-moya ezintlithekayo”. Elo bali uliva ezindabeni, elo bali ulifunda ku-Instagram, yinqwelomoya eye yantlitheka. Kwibali ngalinye olivayo, kufuneka ucinge malunga nokuba zingaphi iinqwelomoya ezihleliyo namhlanje. Cinga ngawo onke amabali eendaba ezilungileyo angazange afikelele kwizihloko, kwiakhawunti yakho ye-Instagram. Eli nqaku lengcebiso yinto endiye ndabelana ngayo naso sonke isigulana somhlaza esiye safikelela kum. Ke ingcebiso kaMaddy ayitshintshanga nje amava am kodwa abanye abaninzi kulo mlo. Libinzana elisetyenziswe ngabahlobo bam kum xa ndiqala ukujikeleza.
Ingcebiso kaMaddy yandifaka kwisiqingatha sendlela yokuskena izilwanyana. Yonke loo nto yayikhangeleka ingcono, kodwa sasisazi ukuba sasingekaphumi ehlathini. Sabelana ngeendaba nabangaphakathi kwaye sibaxelele ukuba sinethemba ngononophelo.
Umjikelo wesihlanu yayilixesha leKrisimesi kwaye ndafumana isipho esikhethekileyo – utofelo-gazi lwam lokuqala. Indibekele iiveki ezimbini ezintle ekhaya kwaye bendiyithanda kakhulu kangangokuba bendijonge phambili ekufumaneni enye kumjikelo wesithandathu, ndisazi ukuba ndiziva mnandi kangakanani emva koko.
Xa kwafunyaniswa ukuba ndine-lymphoma ngoSeptemba kulo nyaka uphelileyo, utata wam uRaoul wayekwidabi lakhe ne-Acute Myeloid Leukemia emva kokufunyaniswa ngo-2020. Wafikelela ekuxolelweni, wafakelwa umongo wethambo kwaye ngelishwa wabuya ne-leukemia yakhe notshintsho lweseli ye-T.
Ukuxelela uMama noRaoul ukuba nam ndinomhlaza kwakubuhlungu gqitha. Wayekwilingo lonyango ngelo xesha, kwaye andizange ndifune ukumxelela. Ndandisazi ukuba le nto iza kumphatha kakubi kwaye ndaziva ndinetyala kakhulu. URaoul waqala ukwehla ngokukhawuleza kwaye wangeniswa esibhedlele kwimpelaveki yeveki yam yokuqala ndisekhaya ngexesha lomjikelo wesihlanu. I-neutrophils yam yayiyi-0.3 kwaye ukuya kumtyelela akuzange kucetyiswe njengoko wayegula kwaye nokungakhuseleki kwam kwakusezantsi. Kodwa iqela lam lonyango lalisazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani oku kwaye landixelela ukuba ndindwendwele xa kungekho mntu wumbi kwaye ndizigqume ubuso. Ndaya ngo-7 ekuseni ngeCawa kwaye ndahlala noRaoul iiyure. Ndivalelise ndizokubona ngomso. Ndandingazi ukuba yayilixesha lokugqibela ndimbona uRaoul. Wasweleka ngengomso.
Ukuya emngcwabeni kaTata wakho, xa sele edlulile ngaphambi kwexesha lakhe, kubuhlungu kakhulu. Ukuzimasa umngcwabo kaTata wakho osweleke ngenxa yomhlaza xa nawe usisigulana somhlaza yimvakalelo enditsala nzima ukuyichaza. Ichasene ne-surreal. Yinyani njengoko inokufumaneka. Yinyani yokwenzekayo xa unyango lwakho lungasebenzi. Yayilixesha elinzima kakhulu kusapho lwethu kunye nokuzingca, kunzima kakhulu kum njengoko ndandizixelele ukuba unyango lwam aluzukusebenza.
Kodwa iqela lam lonyango lindibuyisele kwindawo yentloko ebendifuna ukuba kuyo ukuze ndidlule kulo mjikelo wokugqibela. Inkalipho namandla kaRaoul ngonyango lwakhe yiyo eyandikhuthazayo ukuba ndizitsalele ndawonye kwaye ndidlule kuyo. Ndaye ndayenza.
USarah ubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa luka-Chantelle lweminyaka engama-33
Unyango lwaluphelile kwaye yayingumdlalo wokulinda de i-PET yam scan kwiiveki ezisi-8. Zade zabuya iziphumo, ndandikwi remission. Eli yayilixesha elikhethekileyo kuthi sobabini noBen kwaye sinombulelo omkhulu kuba esi yaba sisiphumo sethu. Siyazi ukuba abantu abaninzi abaziva ezi ndaba kwaye sizive sinethamsanqa. Ndaye ndakhumbula, kufuneka ndixelele uChantelle, intombazana endandikhe ndabahlobo nayo kwi-Instagram. Wayefumene iziphumo zakhe ze-PET scan kwiveki engaphambi kweyam kwaye ngelishwa, wayengekho kuxolelo kwaye kuya kufuneka aqale kumgca wesibini wonyango kwiiveki ezizayo. Ndasuka ekubeni ndivuya kakhulu ndaya kuxolelo, ndaziva ndigula esiswini ngenxa yesazela sosindileyo. Ndandiza kumxelela njani ukuba ndikwi remission.
Kodwa ndamxelela kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo wayenomdla kum. Ndamqinisekisa ukuba lento ayizubutshintsha ubuhlobo bethu, andiyi ndawo, kwaye ndilapha ukuze adlule. U-Chantelle waqala unyango lwakhe lwesibini kuPeter Mac kwaye ndamtyelela. Kodwa inkwenkwe ityala lexhoba laliyinyani. Unyango lwesibini lukaChantelle ngelishwa aluzange lusebenze, ngoko ke icebo C yayiyiCar T cell therapy ndaye ndaqhubeka nokutyelela. UChantelle ufumene iziphumo zakhe zokugqibela kwiiveki ezintathu ezidlulileyo kwaye "phantse" uxolelwe, baqinisekile ukuba uya kucaca kwiskeni sakhe esilandelayo kwiiveki ezimbalwa.
Ke ngoku ukwi-remission, iinwele zakho ziqala ukukhula, umhlaza wakho usemva kwakho kwaye wonke umntu ucinga ukuba uqhelekile kwakhona, ingathi akwenzekanga nto? Ukuba seluxolweni yeyona mvakalelo ilungileyo onokuthi ube nayo, kodwa akukho kubuyela emva kubomi bakho bangaphambi komhlaza. Kuthatha ixesha elide ukuba ululame kwaye ufumane "entsha yesiqhelo" kwaye ndichithe ixesha elininzi ngo-Epreli noMeyi ebhedini.
Njengoko ixesha lihamba, ngokuqinisekileyo ndiziva ndomelele ngakumbi yonke imihla kwaye ndiqala ukunxulumana kwaye ndiphume ndiye kwiindawo. Kuyavuyisa ukukwazi ukuqalisa kwakhona uhlobo oluthile lwesiqhelo kwaye wenze izinto zemihla ngemihla kwakhona. Kodwa sisafunda isiqhelo sethu esitsha.
Ndibuyile ndisebenza kwiOfisi yaseMelbourne iintsuku ezimbalwa ngeveki. Kwaye iskena sam esilandelayo se-PET senyanga ezi-6 siya kuba ngoSeptemba, kunye nomhla wokuzalwa wam "wama-30". Ukuba iziphumo ze-PET scan ayisiyiyo le sinethemba layo, siya kube sibetha i-pub, kodwa ngeli xesha neqela labahlobo.
Ndifumanise ukuba kukho uxinzelelo oluninzi kwizigulana ezinomhlaza zokufumana isilivere ekuxilongeni kwazo. Ndingabe ndiyaxoka xa ndisithi itshintshe imbono yam kwaphela. Ndingathanda ukucinga ukuba inakho, kwaye andigxininisi kwizinto ezincinci, kodwa ndisenjenjalo, kuba ndiyakhathala.
Ke, ukuba bekufuneka ndifumane i-lining yesilivere bekuya kuba nethuba lokwazisa ngeminikelo yegazi kunye nokujoyina ubhaliso lwabaxhasi. Ukuqala kwam iakhawunti yam ye-Lymphomo ye-Instagram ndandingazi ukuba iya kukhula ibe luluntu olumangalisayo olufuna ukunceda abanye ngokungazingci. Le yinto endiza kuqhubeka ndilumkisa ngayo.
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